It’s a scary world out there. It’s scary because we aren’t letting our kids, as a general rule, play, explore, and discover that outdoor world. And to me, the lack of kids roaming out there is scary. (Crime rates are down since we were kids, so the world is actually less scary if we look outside our heads and at the stats.)
Because we are scared.
Because they don’t know how. (Or because there is nobody else out there to play with–that breaks my heart. Let the kids out to play!)
If we’ve kept our kids indoors for the first few years of their lives (51% of preschool-aged children are taken outdoors to play on a daily basis) and suddenly decide to boot them outside to go play all day, it isn’t going to work.
Why not?
Because we haven’t trained them to play outdoors. We haven’t trained them that being outdoors is good, normal, fun, and something that should be done with regularity.
Think of it this way. Say a person has never read a book. They’ve seen a book and have been told it is good, but they don’t know how to read. They haven’t personally experienced the joy of a good book. We aren’t going to plop them down with a book one day and expect them to learn how to read on their own, get into it, and read the afternoon away are we? Nope, we are going to slowly build a reader by exposing them to it over and over again, make it fun, and increase the amount of time with each exposure. It’s the same with playing outdoors. We have to build up to hours of independent play.
In our neighbourhood there is a playground. There is also a playground about a kilometre to the south-west and another to the south-east. The playground next door is always teeming with kids. The other two playgrounds? Whenever we go to them we are the only ones there. Why is that?
Here’s how it may have happened…
We’ve live right next door to the teeming playground, but it wasn’t always that way. Years ago, whenever our daughter would come in saying there was nobody to play with in the park we’d said, “Go find someone.”
And she did. Repeatedly. She’d go to all the girls in the neighbourhood (luckily quite a few) and knock on their door. “Do you want to play in the park?” No luck? On to the next house. She’d keep going until she found someone. (And if we sent her farther than a few blocks, we’d send her with a walkie-talkie.)
And when our daughter sees others playing in the park, she runs out and joins them. (And since they have someone to play with, they play out there for longer.) Over time, the kids have created a community of ‘knock on my door and I’ll come play outside with you.’ As a result, the playground is always teeming with kids.
Last night, an unusually warm evening (also a school night, I should note), the playground had kids from at least half a dozen families playing out there until the streetlights came on.
We can do this. We can make our kids outdoor play people. On Thursday I’m going to share an infographic that shows the value and benefits of children playing outdoors. Stay tuned, you won’t want to miss it.
In the meantime here are some things you can do to help get your kids playing outside. You might just find yourself in the midst of a neighbourhood hub of play!
And that’s what it’s all about… enjoying the outdoors. Create some good habits and see you out there!
Share your outdoor play experiences in the comment section below. I’d love to hear about them.
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Summer is almost over. (WAH!) And that means a lot of things. And one is the end of Dandelions. While fathers around the neighbourhood may rejoice that their battle with these prolific flowering weeds will soon come to a close for the season, it’s a rather sad day for kids.
Or at least it should be.
Do you let your kids spread Dandelion seeds by blowing them off the stems? Have they learned “Miss Polly had a Dolly and Her Head Popped Off?” Do you play the “Do You Like Butter?” game? How about make Dandelion stem jewellery?
No? Well there’s still time! Grab your kids and head for the dandelion patch! (I dare you to play “He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not” with dandelion petals! )
Got Dandelions? Good. Let’s Play:
This is a great outdoor game for toddlers (and older kids). Simply pick a Dandelion that has gone to seed and blow the seeds off it. When the kids start to get lightheaded, they can simply wave them in the air. They’ll love it! (I still do!)
Sure, some parents might freak out about the idea of a doll having it’s head popped off, but you know what? It’s a fact of life. Doll”s heads pop off and kids think this game is hilarious! And honestly, it’s a great way to get the kids beheading all the Dandelions in the yard before they go to seed.
How to play: Find a Dandelion that has bloomed. Grip the stem just under the flower’s head. Place your thumb against the stem under the flower and flick your thumb upwards while singing the song (lyrics below). The flower should pop off! (It may take kids a few tries to figure out the popping part. Let them experiment and problem solve this one. They may just rip that head off!–That works too!)
Lyrics: Miss Polly had a dolly and it’s head popped off. (Pop head off Dandelion on the word “popped.”)
This game originated with Buttercups, I believe, but being rather short on Buttercups but deluged in Dandelions, we always used Dandelions.
Find a Dandelion that is in bloom. Hold it under someone’s chin while asking “Do you like butter?” If the flower reflects yellow on their skin, the answer is “yes.” And then, if you are feeling especially bratty, you slide the flower up over their chin, leaving the gorgeous yellow pollen behind. (If you are thinking “allergies” don’t fret. Just play. You can always run to the Claritin later.)
How to make Dandelion Jewellery: Take the stems of Dandelions–longer is better as they usually taper a bit more, making this easier–and take one end (skinnier end) and slide it through the hollow other end of the stem making a circle/loop. Voila! Make more loops, hooking them through another loop before closing the loop to make a chain. Make bracelets, anklets, necklaces, and even a headdress.
This game is a lot easier with a flower that only has a few petals, but if you are looking for a nice, BIG challenge, playing this game with a Dandelion is the sure way to go! Pull out the first petal and say “He loves me.” Pull out the second petal and say “He loves me not.” Continue back and forth. The last petal that you pull out will reveal if he loves you or not. Good luck!
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Strange and useless Dandelion facts: Dandelions are not considered a weed in England and are planted in gardens–intentionally. (or so I have been told–correct me if I am wrong). Dandelions make a lovely wine. Dandelion leaves are edible and can be added to salads.
What are/were your favourite Dandelion games to play? Did you play any of these as a kid?
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— Jean Oram (@KidsPlay) August 22, 2012
Mud? Castles? Roads? Towns?
Have fun!
This activity promotes creativity.
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